The first time I saw DALDoM, I didn't question his statement--not because I thought he'd never had fantasies about a "settled" life but for two reasons: 1. I didn't think he'd really fantasized that much about Lisa and Ben in that family life (or even Lisa as a monogamous relationship); 2. I thought that it was because he was so aware that Sam was with him, that his subconscious was bringing up dreams he might not have dreamed on his own. In other words, he was so worried about thing Sam might see that his brain started imagining exactly those things that he thought might embarrass him.
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The first time I saw DALDoM, I didn't question his statement--not because I thought he'd never had fantasies about a "settled" life but for two reasons: 1. I didn't think he'd really fantasized that much about Lisa and Ben in that family life (or even Lisa as a monogamous relationship); 2. I thought that it was because he was so aware that Sam was with him, that his subconscious was bringing up dreams he might not have dreamed on his own. In other words, he was so worried about thing Sam might see that his brain started imagining exactly those things that he thought might embarrass him.